DO NOT START THIS BATTLE!! You need to remain calm... DO IT FOR YOUR KIDS!
I know you're hurting, but you need to take the high ground here. This will do no good long term.
let sleeping dogs lie when it comes to her work devices or anything else. Your job and focus is on you and the kids.
I was so, so close to blowing the lid off of things in my sitch. I was going to out W on social media and in front of her entire family, but I held it together, took a deep, deep breath and confronted her 1-1 as calmly as possible. I went for a drive, got my thoughts together and came back and we talked.
The point being that if I had done those things, it was over and there was no going back.
Trust me. Take the high road here. Let the Lawyers handle things and keep your distance!
