Need support navigating the change in my marriage

[G8r]

Thank you Ghost. A while back I wanted the D to have that so D3 would k ow when she was older what happened. I no longer want it included for that reason and don't know that I want to respond in that manner. I was hurt and thinking from a place of anger. I also think it will hurt my D3 says (although I won't lie to D3 when she is much older if she asks) and it will effectively kill any chance of future R (if that is even possible).

L I spoke with today wanted to use that and the fact that W has hit me twice (no evidence) and W has bitten me (have photo evidence but no police report) to ensure I get a fair divorce. If I hire a L I think I should follow advice or there is no point in hiring a L. I have interview with 2nd L scheduled next Tuesday and will call at least 1 more. Btw, 1st L doesn't really know how to respond until seeing petition so his advice could change.