Pink, I read what KML posted above and understand her view. My only hesitation is that your H has been - as I think it was Wonka said - a kitty MLCer - regularly coming back for reassurance - but then continuing with the wayward behaviour.

Might it be an option to thank him for all that he said - acknowledge that it must have taken a great deal for him to have spoken in that way, and that you appreciate it. As for asking him whether he is asking for another chance, I'm not so sure - but maybe others with more experience than me may chime in. It would always be an option to let him know you are there if he wants to talk again at some point - and let a little time pass...

Xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus