I am sorry that she is putting you through this, she has no idea how lucky she is to have a good man who is willing to put up with this for so long.
This does not take anything away from how much I hate affairs of any kind (EA or PA), but I can endure for now because I know I was part of the problem and that she was suffering for a long time before she went down her dark path. I just wonder if she'll find her way home before I move on
SciDad, you are right, and you are a kind and compassionate man. I am feeling the anger today so I will not say any more. But I am on the same page as you. I don't want to move on but at the same time, I have to.