It's another day. I knew it was coming. I thanked the courier that delivered the papers, and read through them.
Called another lawyer, waiting to hear back.
I will still fight for the marriage, but now in a very different way. I am prepared mentally. It's a marathon, not a sprint, right?
My wife is well off the reservation. Her fantasy is about to come crashing down around her.
I will be cool, calm, collected. Strong and confident. My kids will see me every day- I'm not leaving. I will be the best father they have ever seen. If the wife wants the D, she'll have to put up with me every day, or leave. It's just that simple. I will no longer be a doormat. No more begging or pleading - I did that months ago, and like DR, and a few other books say, it flat out doesn't work, and helps to drive the WW away.
In my weakness He is perfect.
M46, EXWW46 M15 T17 D20, S19, D13 M - Addiction since 1998 W EA/PA #1 2013/2014 W EA #2 June 2015... BD 1 Big D talk 9/15 BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15 Served D 1/22/16 Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)
