G8r I am not able to advise regarding the divorce petition what I would like to say is you must do what is right to protect yourself...

What is to be gained by countering with A

Are you able to talk to your w agree the financials and the child care then agree the D they can almost be delt with as three separate things well they can in the UK as I understand things

I wish you all the strength I feel your sitch and you are in my thoughts

Take care my friend

Ghost

Me:48 W 41
M:18 T:26
2 D 18 & 4
2 S 17 & 13
Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation
D filed 06/17
Separate houses 10/17
D Final 29/12//17.