Ugghhh, have I mentioned this is hard?

[SciDad]

I think that right now she's either fence sitting or undecided. Without reading her mind I won't know for sure. I refuse to guess what her motives are when her actions are this erratic.

I don't think she's having a PA, but I'm fairly certain she's still having an EA from the standpoint that she's still WAY to connected to him emotionally. I should mention that I think its possible to be caught up in a one-sided EA, so it doesn't really matter if I find evidence of an EA or contact. If she WANTS contact its as bad as if she has contact in my book

As for me, I still have work to do on myself. Not only fun stuff like guitar and meeting people, but personal growth. I can hang on a bit longer, but I refuse to be in limbo forever.