Ugghhh, have I mentioned this is hard?

[SciDad]

Any contact whatsoever with someone you've had an inappropriate relationship with is too much contact. If you tolerate any of this then you don't respect yourself. If you don't respect yourself then she won't respect you or any boundaries.

They work together. She's working on changing that, but because she doesn't like her job. I don't think she's doing it to get away from him or make me happy