Thanks, TX. Isn't human psychology funny in a tragi-comic sort of way? I'm always amazed at how many of us have heard ILYBNIL during the initial bomb drop. And how many of our stories parallel each other. And sometimes how predictable the waywards and walkaways are. I like to think that our chances for a reconciliation are good. And at the same time I know I have to GAL, etc. I still could go to that game tonight and sit with the hot woman, but I think it's too early and no one would be fooled! And it might be really hard to see W and OW and all the friends I don't want to talk to. And when I say fooled, it's not that I'm giving that woman any mixed messages at all. We would just be sitting together with two other friends. I don't want to play games, I really don't. I just want to be happy.
But, if going to this game with these friends makes you happy then that is what you should do. That's not playing games, that's you doing what makes you happy. That's successful GAL. Whatever your W thinks about it is not your concern. Please don't pass up opportunities to GAL.
