I can't find it either. Can someone post a link to Mona's thread?
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
He text me saying that he has been thinking about me and how I refuse to let things go and move forward. So with that he is sorry, he loves me, and he hopes that one day I can forgive him but he will not do this with me anymore. He will not keep fighting with me and he hopes I find someone and can be happy because he deserves to be happy and he can't be with me.
Is he f#%@ing kidding me!? So he can cheat and lie for over 2 years and then immediately get into all of these hook up sites but the fact that he has said sorry a few times over the course of less than 2 months (and I haven't forgiven him) means its over? This has got to be a twilight zone episode.
Never mind that he vetoed transparency and has put our kids through hell. Or that he broke my heart. None of that is the reason. Just that I didn't fall over myself to forgive him when he muttered I'm sorry.
And he wants me to find someone else. Talk about kicking me when I'm down. You couldn't let your ex go but you easily set me free with your blessing to find another man and build a life with him. For him to raise our kids with me.
I didn't respond. If that's how he feels then it's how he feels. I just hate that he can still make me cry.
Rain (moi): 40 Ex Fiance: 39 3 kids On/off again EA & PA Last BD by ow 12/15 Moved kids and myself back into our own place: 12/15
Ugh...you have got to be kidding. I mean, I know I have said in the past about how forgiving him for the A is a necessary step to moving on...and it is...but there is NO WAY you can forgive him when he continues to do the kinds of things he is doing. He needs to pick a lane. Either he wants to be with you and is willing to do what it takes, or else leave you alone so you can heal without him.
I know how much the "find someone else" line must hurt. Like everyone says around here...believe nothing he says and only half of what you see. It's clear he still loves you in his own messed up way. It's just a tactic like everything else.
NYG I couldn't find it until I searched Mona52. And if you have FB and get to read it PLEASE tell me what it says lol
I've deactivated my FB account. The last thing I want to do is go on FB, link to MWD's page, and then have all my friends get a notification that I've updated my status or something! Maybe I can go on a friend's FB page and look that way... I'll do that tomorrow.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
Hey Anna. Thanks. Yes it is very hard to hear. He kept on and on after that text because I didn't respond. I finally did. I told him that I will respect his decision and that I need for him to give me my space now so that I can do what I need to do.
He said..."I hope you can forgive me one day and that you find everything you want and deserve"
