Work on you, be there for the kiddos. It sounds like D14 really needs you to be strong and a leader right now.
Guide the Trumpet family ship and let W swim until she catches up!
I can see how this is going to play out, and trust me, if you can truly detach and live your life for you and the kids you're going to come out of all of this being able to hold your head high knowing you did everything you could.
Control: You have it over you.You've been able to keep your addiction at bay ( 84 days today, bud!) and have proven to yourself and your kids that you are a stable, quality human being: You're becoming someone only a fool would leave!
It's futile to chase a bird; they just hop from tree to tree. But when it gets cold outside, they're going to want a warm place to stay. Here's hoping your bird realizes that before you close the window. It's a cold, cold world out there!
