The link to my other thread above doesn't seem to work properly. Try this one if you can't find it: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2637479&page=2

Me: 48 y/o
W: 47 y/o
Together: > 20 yrs
BD: Dec '15, then S
2nd BD: Mar '16, then I filed for D
April '16: started piecing