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Rain...I am sorry you are dealing with so much. XF definitely sounds like he has some issues. I think you are doing great, all things considered. Keep hanging in there. I don't always have time to post but I check on you daily and am rooting for you...


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Thank you so much Anna. That's sweet of you to check on me smile has your H tracked you again? That really gave me a laugh.

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It *was* funny...lol I actually told him that I knew he did it and he made some excuse about just wanting D13 to show him how it worked. It was just a coincidence that he was having a meltdown about not being able to reach me at the same time. wink


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Hey MB...how are you? I don't put my state because some of his family and definitely XOW and her entire crew stalk me online.


OMG, that would be so creepy and annoying! It's okay, I was just wondering. We have Social Workers where I work. I was just going to ask one of them if they knew of any type of resourses that you could check on in your state. I completely understand your not wanting to expose yourself to people who are trying. to stalk you. Better to be SAFE!


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MB thank you for the thought. I wish we could PM each other then I could tell you. And it is creepy especially considering I don't have social media. So that takes some skill and determination. Xow found my blog, and can see someones FB...and a few of his family members run back to him (by sending him screen shots) if one of my friends or family posts pictures I send them. If I look pretty or the kids and I are in a place he doesn't recognize he asks me about it. Always casually since, you know, it's not as if he really cares.

And the genius ow, when I spoke to her she not only BDed....she admitted to her and her friends searching for me online. Even told me how amazing I looked on a few different occasions. Which seems strange to me because a) she had "won" so why and b) why tell me.

Thus my apprehension on getting any social media.

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Anna, clearly it was purely coincidental wink

Men are so funny when they get caught in a lie. When mine first had his phone suddenly locked up like fort Knox I told him I knew he had gone though my phone. He denied it until I told him he had gone through my pics and email, then he stuttered and looked away and said oh yeah I did BUT I was trying to get to the calculator. I said thats why you have a phone and we have a calculator in the desk. Please don't go through my phone again because the calculator is on the home screen and my email is not. Plus I am not allowed on yours. Fair is fair. I then put a lock on mine too.

My phone tells me the last 10 things visited which is how I knew smile

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I hope you all have a good day today. Rain, I hope that freelance work works out great for you!
You've inspired me to work out more. It's not like my social calendar is full!!
It's kind of too bad we can't know where we are all from. Sometimes I wonder if any of us live near each other. I can't say where I'm from because I've mentioned things that would easily I.d. W and OW. If only that edit button would come back...


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Hi NYG...you are so right. Edit and a PM button. Even if it has to go through a moderator to make sure there's no funny business going on in private lol

And thank you. The way I pant through my work outs youd be hard pressed to see it as inspiring smile

It's getting easier though. And I am very sore but it's the kind of sore where I think to myself "yes! It means it's working and that I am a day closer to my goal weight". Hey I am now single so I have to be my own cheerleader.

And yes we have to be careful about exposing to much of ourselves here since the internet is forever and it came back around on us next week or in 5 years.

I am praying the freelance work pans out too. Thank you.

I always read your thread but you have a lot of heavy hitters guiding you and I usually dont have much to add.

I am sorry you're still crying every day. It does get better (that's what I hear).

I was crying multiple times a day, so I am doing better now on that front.

Hope you have a great day too. Enjoy the game if you do go.

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Ladies, you might want to take a look at Mona's thread page 8.

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Okay. Thanks Gmum. smile


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Last BD by ow 12/15
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