I can't remember who's threads you posted on, but it came across as good solid and helpful.

Over the months you have helped me through some rough patches.So don't underestimate yourself. I am doing OK (relatively) but I expect you will get me through another few low spells in the future.

Have a good weekend.

R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together