I think she isn't completely over you either. Here's what I think is important to remember. We've all dumped people in our lives. At least I think we have. I know I have. If they were clingy and begging me to come back I just felt sorry for them and they were extremely unattractive to me. You know the only ex girlfriends I ever wanted back? Those were the ones who moved on right away and started seeing other people. That almost always flipped the roles and I became the pursuer instead of the dumper. You know when my wife got off the fence and realized she wanted our marriage? When I told her I was done, have a nice life, I'm filing for D. All the DB'ing in the world didn't knock a dent in her armor. It was when I became the dumper that things really changed.
