dday, if XW tells you about her day and engages you, I don't see why you should pull back. Be friendly and show her how far you've come. What you shouldnt do is to pursue, which I don't see you doing.
I guess you're doing quite fine.
(((Dday)))
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.