He loves me he loves me not

[JulieH]

Grlonfr...you described exactly what I do. I am either too agressive or a door mat.

Saying "I see why you feel that way" would have been the exact thing to say today. I need that tattooed on my forearm.

Or I could have just agreed with him, made a joke about how of all days they had to lend there car away and then just threw in something like, "well they do so much I have a lot to appreciate them for". That would have worked! I just get so heated because I am mad at him for leaving me.