RAI and Sandi, yes, yes and yes. You have me pegged.
I have a document I created and I cut and paste the things I really need to hear and put them in it. I have started to study it. I helps me. Even the hard to hear parts. I am driven by fear and having a lot of trouble consistently avoiding that as my motivation.
Of course a lot of LBH's DO believe this...
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Do you not believe her? Do you think you know her real feelings better than she knows herself? Do you think you can persuade her to stay in the M and that she'll change her mind?
Where is the line between, "waiting for her to come out of the fog" and being an arrogant, controlling husband who thinks he knows better?
It sounds like separation is the only answer
H:54 W:46 D:11 D:21 M:12 BD:1/15 In-house Separation 2/15 DB started 7/15, W sees consistency 9/15 Dropping the rope and having her leave 2/16, moves 5/16 Reconciliation 1/17 Obviously still struggling
