I'm being beat up by some friends that think I should respond to XW about OM sleeping over.

My friends major points were:
- it is selfish
- it is confusing
- it is unfair
- the kids already know she is sick, they need their mom, not to have another guy sleep over

I agree with all of these points and more.

Should I respond to XW???

Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2
M - 8/2008
W is not happy - 1/2014
W wants D - 9/2014
W moved out - 11/2014
D filed - 1/23/2015
D'ed - 2/25/2015
Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015