I realize that being here, supporting the kids, is what I need to do.
If you can hang in there and do it with some measure of strength on your part, detach and GAL and get sucked into her storm, then that is awesome. Think about 10 years from now: what do you want the kids to remember about you during this time?
You can't control what your W does, but you can lead your kids through this and show them how a man looks after his kids.
