I totally agree w/Cali. It's going to be very interesting to see which personality will come forth and speak to you in the near future.
She was playing the lawyer card to get you to back off and regain control over a situation that she created and she knew she was very wrong about all of the things that you identified.
I think you handled the situation well and I'm not surprised you didn't even make it into the meeting w/the mediator. Now, that's a first!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
