MLC Successes/Cinders list of Restored Marriages

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I've heard of a few that divorce and get married, but they weren't on the DB Forum. Their divorces were not MLC.

Now, that's not to say that some from the forum may divorce and remarry, but they generally do not return here to post an update. Why? Because they are so focused on creating a new marriage and living their lives to the fullest and they may not want to return and be reminded of what they went through.

The best thing you can do is to keep the focus on you and your family. There is absolutely nothing that will speed up MLC in a spouse. They have to complete the entire crisis and if they don't, they'll re-enter the crisis later, i.e., could be months or even years later, and it will be far worse than the first time around.

You've truly been given the gift of time...use it wisely to work on yourself. It's a time to do those things that you've put off doing for years. It's a time to rediscover yourself and if there are changes that you want to make for yourself, then do them...but they must become permanent or the MLCer will know that you only did them to try to get them to return.

Use your time wisely. Rediscover yourself and the world around.