I would like some opinions: At this point, do I keep doing the friendly thing, or should I pull back more. XW is telling me some things in her life, not all or even most. Should I try and pull back and let her miss me, or keep showing her that I care, and have bettered myself? Or does it even matter anymore?
I have worked on trying to remember things as they really were. No more rose colored glasses. That is going a long way for me. And, this will sound stupid, XW had a pimple, and I kept focusing on it. It helped me in a weird way. "warts and all", right? Removing her from the pedestal, I believe.
35 3 boys Not my circus, not my monkeys anymore....
