Yup, it stands for Rising Above It - IV

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Hi Rai, liking who you are and being in good health are two huge positives.

I'm at a similar process to you - D process well underway. I'm concerned to read about your W's level of spending now the D process has started. Are there options to put some agreed financial limits in place? You may want to keep some records of her spending activities in case you need them at some future point. It doesn't seem appropriate that she is continuing her A under the same roof and spending on large items without any reference to you. Are you the sole earner?

Just some food for thought anyway. I don't think you are poor at DBing, but it is always worth the reminder of the need to detach and live your own life. At what point in the D process do you intend separating?

Take care Rai, you are doing well xx