I cant tell you how much I hate this. This makes it seem like it's a game between you and OW. The real struggle you need to have is with yourself. These words give the illusion of you dealing with external forces to "win" back W.
I just dont think this is about that. Sure, OW and W might break up tomorrow and your W will come back to you looking for forgiveness. Then, great, you did those things above.
But why would you expect that new relationship to be any different from the old one? How are you different from two months ago? Until you can remove your view from the W/OW relationship and internalize it to you, I dont see why any new relationship would be different. And we know how that relationship is going.......
