Thanks Sandi and Gmum. Yea my head is telling me to leave this one be as well which is what I will do here. Thank you all for your input and keeping my head on straight.

That is kind of a messed up text to send to your husband who you have barely talked to in 6+ months. But it is no surprise after all the stories I have read on here.

I am glad I have the gym tonight, then a work call and then hockey. That will keep me busy to almost midnight and I have plans for tomorrow night.

I guess one thing I am concerned about is being too cold. But we can see how it goes.