The focus is definitely shifting to me.
W texted me his fingers look better. They look good. Do I still want her to take him to Dr?

I am going to leave it for awhile. What I want to say is if you think it's fine I trust you will act accordingly. Just don't want to say I trust your judgment.

I don't know if she is keeping updated or looking for advice and guidance.

The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.