He did mention he was a certain number of days a year that he is guaranteed to have her. For some reason he said he wanted to make sure he has like 80 days so it won't be an issue when I meet a new man etc. Not sure what the two have to do with one another.

At the mediation intro we talked about also needing a lawyer from the country I'm moving to, involved in the process.
Good point about the passports. I have both of them now and don't intend to give them to him. I'll get that in writing as well.

Not sure how we will do the visitation schedule. I want him to start slowly and build up over the years. And in the beginning she should not be too far away from me etc. Certainly don't want him to take her out of the country.

Thanks again for your comments. I'm writing it down on my list of demands/requests for the divorce agreement.