I feel for you, man. Keep posting. Maybe we can figure a way out of our messes that keeps our marriages together. If you have any ideas, share them.
Fo.2 is right - you can't go back to the kindness well in our cases - I'm prepared to call her work, explain she's contacting OM using their software. She might lose her job - but she has to feel consequences for actions now. She really hasn't.
M46, EXWW46 M15 T17 D20, S19, D13 M - Addiction since 1998 W EA/PA #1 2013/2014 W EA #2 June 2015... BD 1 Big D talk 9/15 BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15 Served D 1/22/16 Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)