I think you should keep DB'ing but I wouldn't drop hints at how good things can be. Don't say a word, just show her by your actions. It takes time for the WS to come out of the "fog" and it really [censored] to watch them mope around and go through withdrawals.
On the other hand, if you think things are picking up between them again, if it were me, I'd take a strong stand and not be available to her in any way. I have been thinking about this a lot because I have a fear that this is going to happen in my sitch, and I know I personally cannot go through this again and I would not be as patient and selfless next time around.
