Rollercoaster at rest: now what?

[needgrace]

Hi NYGal, Friends knowing anything always backfired for me. Under the inexplicable behavior and anger is guilt, and when you fuel the guilt (other knowing anything) it tends to turn to anger and more entrenchment in being right about her choice... the less people that know, the easier the path back for her. Let her be the one to explain... you take the high road. Be around your friends, if you can, without commenting.

Right past your window? Really? Sounds like she does not realize that she has lost you yet..

Take care