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I don't think ignoring it is the right way to go... I've been plenty mysterious over the course of the last 7 months. hmph

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I would be flirty, like ' better clean your linen then wink


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One word, "Nightmares?"

Then she'll either respond with more or not. Be cool. Don't say to much. LBH's have a tendency to be too wordy in their responses.

Aren't you glad, now, that you didn't break down and contact her? You waited it out and now she's made the first move in a contact. Don't go crazy and make this out to be something more than what it is. I believe it is nothing more but a sneaky way to tempt check you. Don't give yourself away. You are the cool guy on campus all the girls want to date......you are confident and very looking gorgeous. wink Now, sound like that guy!


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I would be flirty, like ' better clean your linen then wink


Yuck!


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OK.. thanks all... I am going with Nightmares?... I like that.

Thanks for the feedback.

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she replied with...

"No! some are good some are bad but no nightmares"

I don't really like that response... this I can ignore.

Thoughts?

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I'd hold off and see if she says anything else.


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I wouldn't reply to the last text. Leave the ball in her court.

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Thanks Sandi and Gmum. Yea my head is telling me to leave this one be as well which is what I will do here. Thank you all for your input and keeping my head on straight.

That is kind of a messed up text to send to your husband who you have barely talked to in 6+ months. But it is no surprise after all the stories I have read on here.

I am glad I have the gym tonight, then a work call and then hockey. That will keep me busy to almost midnight and I have plans for tomorrow night.

I guess one thing I am concerned about is being too cold. But we can see how it goes.

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def let that one go. no response.


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