What are you thinking? Where are you on this? I'm sure you've been pondering, so before I say anything else, I want to know where you're at.
Right now I'm torn. Part of me is actually doubting if she really went to see the OM or just drove by to reminisce. It's more than wishful thinking on part - a few clues I cant get into were accidentally revealed to me. It still remains to be seen if she's still texting him, but I'm not sure how important that is since she has the opportunity of seeing him EVERY day at work. Even without a phone she could keep in contact with him and I'd never know
Another thing I'm debating is how I think she'll respond. If I demand transparency will it drive a wedge between us and create tension that will only validate her lack of feelings toward me? Would it be better to just keep DBing? I won't pretend everything is perfectly OK and try to piece, but I think the right action might be somewhere in the middle. Clear that I want NC and that I'm not convinced that it's happening. Give her hints at how good things could be if she decided to work with me on our marriage, while still remaining uncommitted. It's a delicate dance....
What are you thinking?
Me-38 W-38; T-15 M-12; S10 and S6 BD - July 2016; EA confirmed; confronted Aug 2015 EA dissolved 12/2016
Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option - Maya Angelou
