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I was fully detached, then STBX finally started coming down from her high with OM. And she started trying to get me back.


Yep!

Hi Card, it's good to hear from you again. I hope you will find the happiness you want and deserve. Just please be careful about your first GF after your D. Have you dated anyone else, other than this particular GF?


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!