If a friend is truly your friend than the information wouldn't get back to W. You need to have a support system of true friends. Friends you can trust, rely on, vent to, cry with, GAL with and lean on. Even if it's only one friend.
Me 40 WW 41 D 4 S 12 S 14 BD 6.16.2015 W stopped wearing ring 9.4.15 W Filed Divorce 9.14.15 My ring off 11.15.15 D finalized 12.18.15 WXW (wayward X wife) moved out 1.28.16 got her own place