WW, My Addiction, Patience, and HOPE

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I am numb and dumbfounded.

Would moving out be a sign of weakness?

We have no money, essentially. I have been getting us out of debt for the last 2 years.

She borrowed $2,000 to file the D from her parents.

I've gotten good advice from a lawyer. The D is filed, no reason to counter file.
She sees her action, but refuses to acknowledge the hurt and pain. She keeps hearing her friends say they'll be fine. There is no way to convince a wayward. My thoughts go to how I can snap her out of it. It will have to be BIG. She feels the damage is too much, that she's too hurt, and can't forgive me for the pornography that she says destroyed our family. Feeling personally responsible for this right now, which is probably wrong, as its her actions that put us in this exact spot.