Wondering if anyone can answer why the hell I want to save a M where the W left me, is having a EA and I suspect PA. What is the mental reasoning behind this? Why do I want to be with and love someone who would do that to me? Someone that knows how much family means to me and yet tears it apart?
I am racking my brain trying to understand this and yet if she wanted to reconcile tomorrow. I would take her back
Amazing, isn't it? Why do you think you get advice to pull back, stop being available, stop waiting around to see what she's going to do,GAL, etc.? Every LBS that comes to this board and talks about how awful their WS has treated them......strangely, wants their spouse back. Human nature has a lot to do with it. And if she thought you were really dropping her like a hot potato, I think you would see her pursuing you.
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That was probably the happiest I have been with me ever. Didn't care what people thought of me. Had no problem taking to people. I need to be that man again!
Yes, you do!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
