You asked a question on my thread about linking Heather and Gwen's threads. I would suggest that if you are interested in reading their threads, that you go to the bottom of the screen (left hand side) and locate the "Display options" feature. Click on "show topics" and change the setting to "from all dates" and then hit the "change" button. Once that is done, go to the top of the screen and click on the "search" button and type in the name of the poster you are looking for.
Generally some posters will list at the top of their thread the links to their respective threads. Some don't.
Good luck!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.