Again , following behind others to say the same. If your dopey H does get his D , nothing will change for him , he will still be chasing the rainbow and never be able to catch it.
Please remember that this was never really about you or the M , it was always about his dream for the impossible. MLC 101 !!!
You will thrive because your an intelligent , sensitive , kind , insightful , caring ( and something tells me attractive ) person.
Thanks for being you , you've helped me and so many others that in a way H did us a favour