Hi Irish, I'll be thinking of you and hoping the meeting goes as well as these things can do. You have already had some good advice. Like others, I think the best approach is 'business meeting' and try and put any hurt feelings to one side until you get home again.

Who knows how things may ultimately turn out, but for now there are some things that need to be resolved in order that you can both move forward. I'm at a similar stage to you, but we are doing the process via email as H lives a few hours away now.

Take care and let us know how things go xx

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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus