NYGal, I apologise for my previous post. I misread OW as W. My brain must be seriously fried by all the fumes from the noxious meds I have been putting on my head.

Agree with the rest that you should not cut yourself off from your friends. Go dark on W but not your friends. You need them to GAL and show W what she's missing out on (through them).


You can call me Dory/ Grl.

As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"

It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.