I found one lawyer that fights for men exclusively, he does not have free consultation, but I have enough of his references to know he is good. And he is divorced father also.

No progress yesterday, no talk or anything.

Me38,W36,D9
M 10y, R 14y

10/11/2015 wants to leave
25/12/2015 definitely wants to leave, makes plans
Jan 2016 started DBing
Feb 2016 sleeping in separate rooms
Sep 2016 sleeping in same room