I think CaliGuy nailed it in the head. You are doing an amazing work on keeping yourself sane, moving forward and learning how to be a even better you.
Some people have the need to feel right and do what they think is right, but everything we do will have some consequence tomorrow, and he may get a different feeling once it is all done.
I wouldn't say all this if was just from reading a novel, I say it because I am living it. You know my final D was on 8/5/15. And yet, after some months, I have XH asking to talk something "between us".
It may be nothing, but it does not eliminate the fact that he still wants to talk. So, you never know, once he has the D in his hands, he may start thinking about what he did.
I just hope that you continue moving forward and taking good care after yourself. This time in your life is not a very easy time and you will need to hold on.
You are a sweet and wise woman, we all admire you a lot and think that with or without your H you will always thrive in your life.
