When you courted your wife did you chase her around having conversations about your feelings and talk of sacrificial love?
She's not ready to be your wife...yet. She's got to get through withdrawal right now. "No contact" is your only concern right now.
Other than that - just be present and try to be fun. Bonus if you can get her out for a good night out. Foggy recently wayward wives love distraction and escape. They like to act like high school girls and focus on the superficial. You want to pull your wife out of that mindset ---- which sometimes involves going into the fogginess of superficiality to lead them out.
How would high school Trumpet have pursued a girl? Do that without the pathetic falling all over yourself begging to get any sex attitude.
If that fails...just sit there and listen to her.
The internet is 90% complaining and entitlement and I hate it because I deserve better!
