I guess you're right. I've been trying to have a PMA but right now I'm so mad, sad, hopeless, etc....
T-20 yrs M- 7yrs Me-46 XH- 44 S15, S21 1yr separation and divorce, my decision-07 1yr separation, my decision-2012 His PA started Aug 2016 I moved out Sept/16 He's been with OW ever since