Late to the game-2

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Tx, I am keeping the OM knowledge quiet for now for all of the reasons that you stated. In my state, filing first means nothing except for setting the court jurisdiction. It's the same court regardless of who files first as we both still live in the same house.
It is not easy sitting on this info. I would love to throw it in her face but I'm following L orders on this one.
Yeah, I lawyerd up a long time ago. My L is also a friend who happens to be one of the highest profile D lawyers around here.
Mu, my L was half kidding/half serious when he told me how to get her out of the bedroom. He knew I would never do it.