Late to the game-2

[Free]

Hey Mutatio,
I do not want to stay married to her. I came here to help save my marriage, thinking she was a WAW. The OM is a deal breaker for me.
For now, I just want her out. The door lock idea is as good as any. I'll get on that in the AM.
My L gave me advice about the sleeping arrangement tonight. He reminded me that we are still legally married and that I am still a man and she a woman. He suggested I go for it and watch how fast she exits the room on her own.
If the thought of that did not repulse me enough to try it, she would be out in seconds.
Ideas like that are why he gets paid the big $$$.
I'll deal with OM issue once she files, not now. I'm past the point of trying to clear the fog. If I had talked to her when I found out, I would be typing this from jail.
I told her I'm done and asked her to file. The waiting game begins, while I prepare for a future without her.
As for possible second thoughts, I highly doubt it. She seems to be full steam ahead towards divorce, but slow to act on it.
My L asked me how long I was willing to let this drag on. Good question. I don't know, but I will say that I'm using this limbo time productively.