I am really trying not to be available. Keeping answers very short and not about her in any way. Those are great guidelines and I agree with them. I am GAL. I was out when se called. If it's about anything but the kids I tend to not answer or if I do i try to keep it impersonal. Anything emergency wise with kids I will always be right there. I know tonight wasn't a huge life threatening emergency. Trying to be unavailable is hard tho. It's coming slowly I think. A week ago I answered everything ASAP. Was over talkative and I am working on curbing it thanks to all of your advice
The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.
