Sounds like you are in a better place mu. We will both get there. I think we are pretty close to the same step too.
Gmum, you may be right. All my hobbies are considered work by many people. Carpentry, mechanic, gardening, woodworking, etc. But it's fulfilling and honest work. I don't do well with down time...
35 3 boys Not my circus, not my monkeys anymore....