Link to old thread: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2645125&page=11

Wonka, How do I show W the icing then pull the whole cake away?
If I'm not supposed to see her, then I guess I shouldn't go to the women's basketball game where she and a lot of our friends will be? Even if I have a really cute "date"? Not a date really, just a new friend.
And the whole idea of not going to things I've always gone to, just so I don't run into her. Aren't I then just slinking away? Like yoga tonight. She might be there, so I'm not going. But then I don't get to go to yoga. And I'm not switching clubs. (In fact, we are still sharing the "couple" membership, heh heh.)


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat